Inclusive language doesn't treat any group as an exception. A common mistake is a gender field with only two options, or a marital-status field that forces an answer from someone who doesn't want to disclose it.
The fix is to widen the options and always include "prefer not to say." If the field isn't strictly necessary, not asking at all is often the better option — requiring non-essential information as if it were mandatory is itself a form of exclusion.
The demo's ✕ forces a choice between two boxes; ✓ adds "other" and "prefer not to say" so no one is forced into the wrong bucket.
When to use
Apply this when designing sign-up fields for gender, family status, or region. First ask whether the field is actually required to run the service.